Starring Your Higher Self (HS) as Your Pro Bono Lawyer
Starring your Higher Self (HS) as your pro bono lawyer
Court is back in session.
Case 1111 – You vs. Worry.
Your Higher Self strolls in – no briefcase, no suit, just that “I’ve got this” look.
HS: “Alright, client, what’s on your worry menu today?”
You: “Finding a partner I love.”
HS: “Noted. And how many times have I already resolved this worry?”
You: “Four.”
HS: “Let the record show – repeat pattern of solved problems – disguised as new ones.”
Previous Success Solutions
- Exhibit A: Practise daily self love – 5 minutes of being own bestie.
- Exhibit B: Expand social playground – join one new group (in person or online) or activity a month.
- Exhibit C: Clear boundaries – exercise the excited yes and firm no.
- Exhibit D: Stay open – curiosity invites love where least expected.
You whispering: “Won’t work this time.”
HS whispers back: “Oh yee of little faith. Works every time. This is basic already proven success maintenance.”
Judge reminds the jury:
“Progress can be slow. Resistance usually masks an unmet need hidden underneath – not good enough, unsafe, incapable…”
The Surprise Verdict
Judge bangs the gavel:
“You get to be human. Progress is proof.
Court adjourned. Case dismissed – with conditions.”
- Identify your unmet need.
- Meet it… kindly.
- Keep actioning the four proven solutions.
- Listen to your HS.
- Avoid repeat hearings.
Worry tried to appeal. Case dismissed.
Public Reminder:
Everyone has their own Higher Self. Next time worry calls, consult before you spiral.
Saves a court case, time, energy, and expenses.